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How do you handle stress?

Your coping style — what you tend to do when things get hard: tackle it, tend to your feelings or keep it at a distance. Fourteen questions, about two minutes. Fourteen more make it precise — still free.

  • Your full result appears at the end. No account, no email first.
  • Three measures from the research on stress and coping — problem-focused, emotion-focused and avoidant — and the style they make.
  • Scored on this device. Nothing is uploaded until you choose to save the result.

What a coping style is

Coping is what you do to handle stress — when something gets hard, when a problem will not go away or when feelings take over. The idea comes from the psychologists Richard Lazarus and Susan Folkman, whose 1984 book on stress and coping drew a line between tackling the problem itself and tending to the feelings it stirs up. From 1989 on, Charles Carver and his colleagues studied the specific strategies people reach for.

The test measures three things. Problem-focused coping: acting, planning and asking for practical help. Emotion-focused coping: seeing things from a new angle, accepting what you cannot change, seeking comfort, finding humor and finding meaning. Avoidant coping: keeping busy so you do not have to think, pretending the problem is not there, venting without moving forward, turning to food or alcohol, giving up or blaming yourself. The style depends on how the measures sit against each other. When the first two are high and avoidance is low, the style is balanced. Otherwise, the measure that stands clearly above the other two gives the style — problem-focused, emotion-focused or avoidant. When none stands out, the style is mixed.

A score is not a verdict. It describes what you tend to do now, not who you are, and the way you handle stress can change. No way of coping fits every situation — what helps most is often being able to choose. The test is an aid to reflection, not a diagnosis.

The statements are Inwork’s own, written for the app from that research, and the test scores exactly as the test inside the app does.

Three measures

Problem-Focused
Problem-focused coping reflects how often you tackle the source of stress directly, by acting, planning and asking for practical help.
Emotion-Focused
Emotion-focused coping reflects how you tend to the feelings stress stirs up, by seeing things from a new angle, accepting, seeking comfort and finding meaning.
Avoidant
Avoidant coping reflects how often you turn away from what stresses you, by distracting yourself, denying it, giving up or blaming yourself.

Frequently asked questions

Is avoiding always bad?

No. Taking a break or thinking about something else can be wise in the moment, especially when there is nothing you can do about it right then. It becomes a problem when avoiding is the only way you cope and the hard thing never gets dealt with.

Can I change how I cope?

Yes. How you handle stress is largely habit, and habits can change — one small step at a time. Retake the test later and see what has moved.

Do I need an account?

No. The whole result is shown without an account and without an email. An account is only needed if you want to keep it.

Where do my answers go?

Nowhere, unless you choose. The result is worked out on your device and your answers stay in your browser. Save the result to an account and the answers are encrypted first.

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